I want to be perfect!
There seems to be an infatuation with being perfect. We want to post the perfect selfie. We want to record a video where we look perfect. We want our work and/or creative projects to be perfect. We want to give a perfect response or reply within conversation.
With this obsession of perfectness we start to eat away at ourselves about our not so perfect lives. We start to become extremely critical of our imperfect bodies, or the unevenness of our skin. We strive to have relationships like Russell and Ciara because it’s viewed as perfect. We want a perfect family.
If we decided to redirect our energy and focus into our mental health, spirituality, being kind to ourselves and others just maybe we’d have a better understanding of our connection to one another and the Universe. Just maybe we would then view everything as perfect!
I always wanted to be perfect
But I realized it made me an overachiever
Which then made me exhausted
And realize no one is even appreciative of the extra work . My love language is words of affirmation sonic I don’t get them – I feel some type of way ..
I am just trying to do more of what feels right to me. My love language is acts of service. Although I like things to be affirmed verbally as well.