The last year to date has been a transitional phase for me in so many ways. I’ve been on a spiritual journey since the end of 2016 and it entailed a lot. It required a lot from me in the process. I’ve basically been unlearning everything that I’ve been taught as “right or wrong.” Exploring the way I process information, and more importantly my self talk and doubts.
The most valuable lesson I have learned to date is accepting responsibility for my own actions and behaviors. As I reflect on my own life the best lessons seem to come from endings. As my friend Tiffany and I talked about experiences in life and love I had a moment. In that moment I recognized that spiritually connecting with another human (past lover(s))was quite a gift, and I’m appreciative for having that experience.I realized that even though things may not have ended as I expected each relationship brought value, clarity, and reflection to my life.
We are often so caught up in being overly emotional, playing the victim, and upset that we couldn’t have our way, we make the transition difficult for ourselves. The value that I’ve gained is the ability to put my actions in perspective; that I don’t want to repeat. I gained clarity in what I truly desire from a partner. Ironically enough I gained that knowledge from not receiving what I needed in my past. Finally reflection. Reflecting on the positivity and the happiness that each relationship brought. Knowing that those were amazing times and that there are more memories to come in future or present relationships.
Release your past lovers fearlessly, and send them on their way with love granted to you by the Universe.